Monday, May 26, 2008

The girl who changed my life

Today I would like to write about a girl who has changed my life and also my perspective towards it. I would like to thank her for coming into my life and being there even when I must have made several foolish mistakes which would have ended this wonderful relationship.Before she came into my life, I was a person who hardly cared about anyone the way I do now, I was never focused about what I want to achieve in life, she made my relaionship with my family more stronger and she is responsible for me and my younger bro coming together so close as we never used to share anything between us. To bear up with me, a person needs lots of patience and also needs to have that much of belief also, so today I take this oppurtunity to thank her from my heart and also God for getting me which was the second bes thing which has ever happened to me.She is very cute, rude at times when I act childish, emotional, child from heart, innocent, an ideal person whom may be all v guys would be waiting to come into our life. She has done a lot for me, she has improved my way of thinking, frankly I am a very narrow minded person n she is complete opposite to me but still she has adjusted to me and understands me. There are often few fights which would creep in but I believe without fights no relationship would be strong and it does help u to understand the person better. She has compromised few things which I dont like just to keep me happy. Let me tell u guys one thing, I would tell her not to do something n then it would be who would be doing it, which really gets on to her nerves sometimes. I feel, I am the luckiest person on this earth and feel whatever amount I spend with her is less for me. I would like to tell her that I would try to be a better person who wouldnt give her much of headache from now onwards :)

India becoming the largest economy in 2050?

Will India ever become a super power and also one of the largest ever economy, this is the latest buzz going around in the world. People from different countries say that India will be becoming a super power by so n so year. I feel these are all there imagination which will not be true due to several reasons.
Today, India is growing at 8-9% for the past 3-4 yrs which is a very positive sign for our economy, but my question is how much of the benefit has been passed to poor people, today also an Average Indian earns less than 21$ per month. We always compare ourselves with our neighbor China, but can v ever catch them. China knows what there potential is just like we know but the main difference lies in implications, which they are very good at n which we are pathetic at. In China, world’s 2nd largest Sea Bridge of 42km was built in approximately 18months time while a small flyover of around 4kms in our country would take around 3 yrs to build and the reasons given are very weird like the fund allotted got over or there is a problem of land acquisition and so on and so forth. China is catching India in BPO industry where we enjoy the largest share. We don’t need people from outside to come and make us fight; we are more than capable of fighting within ourselves. The education provided here is below world class standards while there is a lack of infrastructure development. I don’t know who does the planning while building a flyover, the work of one has hardly began and digging of 2 or 3 flyovers coming ahead will also start thus leading to a chaos. We are unbelievingly pathetic in the way we plan things and implement it. Our airforce which is said to be one of the best in the world is facing crisis of men due to several reasons and one of the main reasons is too many crashes of MIG, which hardly fly more than they crash. We take actions after an incident has happened while it should be ideally the other way around. There is a lot of problem in our law and order, people are scared of it. The ever increasing gap of rich and poor, what steps have been taken to curb it? When there is a big incident taken place in the country instead of politicians coming together to solve it, they start blaming each others and start playing with people’s emotions just to gain some vote bank.

Frankly speaking, India after independence is as worst as when it was under the rule. Bhagat Singh had predicted the current situation and had warned us before hand but what do we do about it. We just remember these freedom fighters on their b’day or death anniversary or on 26th Jan or on 15th Aug. Not many follow what they have said. To become a superpower, we need to think like that and most importantly act on achieving that.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

My Strength - My Mom

Today being a Mother's Day,I decided to pay tribute to the most influential person in my life without whom I am nothing,who gives me strength,belief,power to fight against anything and everything,without whom I would have not being the person whom everyone in this world knows.You guessed it right it is My MOM.
I come from a middle class family where we had to go through a lot of hardship when we were at school and also at college,but My Mom never let me and neither my younger bro feel the pinch of it.There were times when my Dad used to not get his payment (as he being a government servent,we all know how it works) for couple of months,she used still manage our living with whatever resources she had and never used to make us feel that there is something wrong going on and used to try and fulfill whatever demand we used to make.She is a picture of courage,strength,patience and many more to me.I still remember once when I was in 3rd Std,we were just inroduced Marathi in our school and I was very poor in grasping it.She used to sit with me and make me learn it. She left her job for us when we were very young to bring us up.She stood behind me when no one else believed in me.
I want to give her whatever she wanted but couldnt take it as she decided to sacrifice her wish for fulfilling mine and my younger brother's wish.I share a very different kind of relationship with her to that my younger brother does.My younger brother shares anything and everything he wants with her,while on the other hand,I am not able to share the same way he is .I am not scared of sharing but its that I have a lot of respect towards her and see her my Idol in life.She understands me better than most of the people who know me.People say that I am the most complicated person to be around with,but she never makes feel the same.
I would just like to tell her though I wont be able to tell her the same face to face,that I LOVE HER A LOT and would also like to promise her that we would give her all the happiness that she was entitled to and would also make her feel proud of us.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

Love

Love.... Does anthing called Love does exist ? I think it does. It can happen anytime,anywhere and with anyone.U cannot think n then start loving a person. It just comes within which is very difficult to explain. Love changes a person,it can make and break him. It makes person more responsible towards life and more specifically it gives a direction to person's thinking.